Romans 8:1 There is therefore now no condemnation to them which are in Christ Jesus, who walk not after the flesh, but after the Spirit.
Friend, what a wonderful word for us today!
If we are believers in Jesus, we are not condemned under the Law, because we are set on a Path of Righteousness through our Lord's sacrifice on the Cross.
To follow after the things of the flesh after we have accepted the Gift of Love from Christ, is to say, we do not believe.
Be not condemned, but accept His free Gift of Mercy for your soul.
Learn of Him and His Goodness and the Grace that He extends to us because we believe.
Be like a babe, childlike in your seeking out the Truth. Do not try to reason with your own mind. Allow Him to guide and reveal things to you in the order which He knows is perfect for your soul.
Read His Word, the Holy Bible and let Him speak to you through the Psalms, Proverbs and the New Testament.
You will find God if you seek Him with all your heart. Be passionate about this one thing in your life and you will find Life itself.
Trust in His Mercy and He will be merciful to you.